i dont belive that God has "one special person" out there for all of us. if God had "one special person out there for all of us" then that would eliminate free choice. i belive he gives us several compatible choices and its up to those two people to decide weither ir not to make the sacrifices it would take to become a couple. and it would take sacrifice on BOTH parts.also, love is a decision. if you decide you are going to be attracted some someone, if you decide you are going to be in love with someone, then it more than likely will happen. its a choice. but i guess BOTH people would be WILLING to make those sacrifices and BOTH people would have to make the choiuce of "falling in love" with the other person.. it wasnt that hard to make sacrifices when i thought of what the outcome could be. but my sacrifices alone werent enough to cut it. it takes TWO people WILLING to SACRIFICE.

well, one down. how many more to go? i would rather not think about it. the thought of it makes me want to vomit.