the following post does not pertain to any one person in particular... it does pertain to several people though, it might pertain to you... im writing the following as if im writing to a girl... but it could go either way, depending on who you are... i know a couple of people in a situation like this right now... ive known them in the past... think about it...
why do you even bother? why do you bother with him? cant you see that he is only dragging you down? he is only holding you back. he is ruining former good relationships. he is only using you, he gives you the run around and yet, you think that he loves you... you think that he makes your life better, you think that you are destined to be with him. i bet you have never even considered being with any one else. you have never even considered the fact that there could be someone out there somewheres who will treat you good, someone who will call you just to talk, someone who will walk you up to the door at night to make sure you get in safely, someone who will come over to your house unexpectidly and suprise you just to visit, just so he can see you. you have never even considered the fact that there is someone out there who compliments you perfectly, someone who will help make your life a little easier, someone who will be in love with you and do sweet things to suprise you, bring you flowers at work and give you random suprises. i bet you think that in time everything will be o.k. i bet you think that in time, everyone will just forget about the strife that you have caused in a result of this relationship... the strife you have caused them by seeing you, their loved one, in a relationship that is not doing you any good. it hurts to see someone you love being torn apart by someone who they think loves them... it hurts to see all the times that he has hurt you, even if you dont admitt to it. and you dont admitt to it. you are proud and you are hell bent on being with that person, no matter what. you think you love him and you think he loves you. it hurts to see you so decieved. it hurts to see your family torn apart by it... it hurts to hear all the lame ass excuses that you and him give to cover up for stupid things that you do... i wish you would just get over it. just give it up. it would hurt at first, it would hurt bad, but eventully ( believe me, ive been there ) it will be better than it was before. you will realize what happened and you will realize that love really does blind you. you dont want to listen to the truth, you dont want to consider things that people who love you offer you, you think they are wrong, you think you are right. you think you can trust your "friends" over your family. your full of shit. you are both full of shit. i wish you would take some time to consider this. i wish you would reflect on the things that have happened as a result of your "love" for this person and you would re-consider him. i wish you would consider what would happen if you gave it up. if you got over the pride and you just gave it up. think of the things you could do, the people you could meet, the broken relationships that you could mend... think about how God can bless you. you say God is blessing you now, but how can all the hurt be a blessing? there has been more hurt, more strife, more grief than there has been happiness... if you deny that then you are really full of shit. God wants to bless, he does not want to tear families apart. the boy treats you like shit. he tears you down, he does not support you, he does not know you, he does not care. he is not ready for a relationship and you are dragging him down by staying in it. you are holding him back from what he could be you are not helping him out. i wish you would just get over it... consider it... think about it... pray about it... get some acountability... break if off.
but i know that you wont. you wont. i know that already...
ive been there myself. ive been stifled by a relationship before, i held on for a long time. but once it was over, once i let it go, i felt better. it hurt. sometimes its lonely, but i would rather be alone now than still be where i was before... i would rather feel this lonliness than feel the hurt that i felt before...
God puts people in our lives to learn from. he puts certain people in our lives to learn from their past experiences, hurts and trials. maybe you can learn from mine. maybe you can believe what im saying about being better off without him. maybe you can trust me... and trust others... maybe God wanted me to share this for you to consider...
i feel bad for you. i feel bad that you are not able to reach your full potential because you are being dragged down... i feel sorry for you becasue you honestly think this relationship is right and blessed by God... i feel sorry for you and it hurts.
please... stop.
why do you even bother? why do you bother with him? cant you see that he is only dragging you down? he is only holding you back. he is ruining former good relationships. he is only using you, he gives you the run around and yet, you think that he loves you... you think that he makes your life better, you think that you are destined to be with him. i bet you have never even considered being with any one else. you have never even considered the fact that there could be someone out there somewheres who will treat you good, someone who will call you just to talk, someone who will walk you up to the door at night to make sure you get in safely, someone who will come over to your house unexpectidly and suprise you just to visit, just so he can see you. you have never even considered the fact that there is someone out there who compliments you perfectly, someone who will help make your life a little easier, someone who will be in love with you and do sweet things to suprise you, bring you flowers at work and give you random suprises. i bet you think that in time everything will be o.k. i bet you think that in time, everyone will just forget about the strife that you have caused in a result of this relationship... the strife you have caused them by seeing you, their loved one, in a relationship that is not doing you any good. it hurts to see someone you love being torn apart by someone who they think loves them... it hurts to see all the times that he has hurt you, even if you dont admitt to it. and you dont admitt to it. you are proud and you are hell bent on being with that person, no matter what. you think you love him and you think he loves you. it hurts to see you so decieved. it hurts to see your family torn apart by it... it hurts to hear all the lame ass excuses that you and him give to cover up for stupid things that you do... i wish you would just get over it. just give it up. it would hurt at first, it would hurt bad, but eventully ( believe me, ive been there ) it will be better than it was before. you will realize what happened and you will realize that love really does blind you. you dont want to listen to the truth, you dont want to consider things that people who love you offer you, you think they are wrong, you think you are right. you think you can trust your "friends" over your family. your full of shit. you are both full of shit. i wish you would take some time to consider this. i wish you would reflect on the things that have happened as a result of your "love" for this person and you would re-consider him. i wish you would consider what would happen if you gave it up. if you got over the pride and you just gave it up. think of the things you could do, the people you could meet, the broken relationships that you could mend... think about how God can bless you. you say God is blessing you now, but how can all the hurt be a blessing? there has been more hurt, more strife, more grief than there has been happiness... if you deny that then you are really full of shit. God wants to bless, he does not want to tear families apart. the boy treats you like shit. he tears you down, he does not support you, he does not know you, he does not care. he is not ready for a relationship and you are dragging him down by staying in it. you are holding him back from what he could be you are not helping him out. i wish you would just get over it... consider it... think about it... pray about it... get some acountability... break if off.
but i know that you wont. you wont. i know that already...
ive been there myself. ive been stifled by a relationship before, i held on for a long time. but once it was over, once i let it go, i felt better. it hurt. sometimes its lonely, but i would rather be alone now than still be where i was before... i would rather feel this lonliness than feel the hurt that i felt before...
God puts people in our lives to learn from. he puts certain people in our lives to learn from their past experiences, hurts and trials. maybe you can learn from mine. maybe you can believe what im saying about being better off without him. maybe you can trust me... and trust others... maybe God wanted me to share this for you to consider...
i feel bad for you. i feel bad that you are not able to reach your full potential because you are being dragged down... i feel sorry for you becasue you honestly think this relationship is right and blessed by God... i feel sorry for you and it hurts.
please... stop.
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